{"id":3324,"date":"2024-02-06T21:12:18","date_gmt":"2024-02-06T21:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/?p=3324"},"modified":"2024-02-06T21:12:18","modified_gmt":"2024-02-06T21:12:18","slug":"social-media-addiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/index.php\/2024\/02\/06\/social-media-addiction\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Steps to Beat Your Social Media Addiction"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>The Social Media Trap<\/h3>\n<p>Having started the power of planning about 6 months ago, I recently found myself wanting to reach a wider audience. One of the first ways I could think of to achieve this (other than general Google SEO work for the website) was social media. Primarily <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/powerofplanninguk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>, as it was the platform I was most familiar with.<\/p>\n<p>This meant finding a way to regularly post valuable content without eating up too much of my time. At first, I outsourced this. You may see the first 20 posts on my account look very different to the next 20. However, I wasn\u2019t entirely happy with the content. It wasn\u2019t \u2018valuable\u2019, it was instead generic and forgettable (despite looking good). So, I decided to start creating content myself. I got a Canva subscription and got to work, utilising Instagram templates and stock videos to get information that I have personally found hugely beneficial to my own time management and organisational skillset.<\/p>\n<p>I now feel the information out there is more actionable and useful for anyone who consumes it. But\u2026<\/p>\n<p>This whole process started to have a negative impact on me. It wasn\u2019t the extra time it took me to create the posts myself. Most of that, honestly, is quite repeatable and I already have a fair few ideas on how I can start to automate it (Chat GPT is one of my biggest allies).<\/p>\n<p>Having not been a consumer of social media at all in the past, (I\u2019ve never had Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook apps) I had avoided falling into the social media trap. The endless scrolling and dopamine binges. However, now I \u201chad to\u201d have the Instagram app. For \u201cwork\u201d. For \u201cmarket research\u201d. To check my follower count, and my progress. I was seeing more and more of my time being eaten up by the algorithm.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d go on with the intention to check if I had any comments or followers or to boost a post with an ad and then 20 minutes later I would emerge wondering what had happened.<\/p>\n<p>It was not nice. I also had a weird obsession with the amount of followers I had. I was checking maybe once every 30 minutes. This was my biggest problem as every time I went on, I\u2019d get sucked in by the algorithm again. Checking my followers did nothing for me \u2013 it just caused me problems.<\/p>\n<h3>How to fix it?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3327\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"social media fix\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/socail-media-fix-1080x810.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Over time my urge to check my followers dwindled and the novelty of starting my new Instagram account wore off. Luckily for me, I do think that I am one of those people who get bored of social media quickly. I get hooked in and bored in just as quick a time. I will still keep up my regular schedule of posting what I hope is valuable and helpful content relating to time management.<\/p>\n<p>There are still issues though. I still waste a considerable amount of time scrolling, checking my followers, and getting hooked. Amazingly my screen time hasn\u2019t gone up too much on my phone. In the weeks before I started creating my own content my screen time was on average 2h 30 \/day. This went up to 3h 30 \/ day. But the most worrying issue was the productive things I had been doing on my phone were now being eaten up by my hours on Instagram. I was spending 1h 13 minutes per day on Instagram and TikTok combined. Probably about 40 minutes more than I would like.<\/p>\n<p>So how do you create content on social media regularly without getting hooked into the algorithm and wasting your time?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Accept that you are a consumer and Instagram and Social Media Apps do not distinguish between creators and consumers.<\/li>\n<li>Create and schedule as much as you can on your computer from Meta business suite, TikTok creator centre or wherever you can that\u2019s not an app designed to steal your time.<\/li>\n<li>Carefully consider your feelings of validation when you obtain a new follower or a like on a post (easier said than done).<\/li>\n<li>Realise that time spent checking followers and your general account is much better served by creating valuable content and working on a marketing strategy.<\/li>\n<li>Delete social media apps if you don\u2019t need them (you can schedule TikTok content without the app).<\/li>\n<li>I struggled to find any fool-proof \u201cbreaking social media addiction\u201d techniques backed up by research. However, I did find <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC7044631\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this one<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The main takeaway I took was this: \u201cself-control is more about building good habits and being less involved with bad habits, than about being intrinsically good at the effortful inhibition of short-term temptations.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And I must admit from my own experience that makes sense.<\/p>\n<h4>1.) Accept that you are a consumer<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3328\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-300x198.jpg\" alt=\"social media consume\" width=\"300\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-1024x677.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-768x507.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-1536x1015.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-2048x1353.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-consume-1080x714.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to use social media apps to post content. This isn\u2019t technically true. You can post on Instagram without having the app. Reels are a bit difficult though. It\u2019s a lot easier and more efficient if you use the app \u2013 and the scheduling features it has.<\/p>\n<p>I also think the insights on the mobile app are better than on the web or on the meta business suite app. I don\u2019t think this is a mistake \u2013 I firmly believe that meta are quite happy to drive you to the app to get this information. With the knowledge that you\u2019ll end up \u201caccidentally scrolling\u201d. Which is obviously good for them.<\/p>\n<p>They are less concerned with you making good traction on the platform, reaching a wide audience and providing valuable content than they are about getting you to spend time on their social media platform.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I wasn\u2019t aware of this when I downloaded these apps, it\u2019s just it wasn\u2019t at the forefront of my mind. Now it is and I try to be conscious of it. I go on the app, do what I went on to do (normally schedule a reel or like a few posts), and no more. But I have to say to myself before exactly that, otherwise I won\u2019t stick to it.<\/p>\n<h4>2.) Create and Schedule as much as you can on your computer.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3329\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"social media schedule\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-schedule-1080x720.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is obvious. Instagram and TikTok in particular are not made for the computer. I don\u2019t know why \u2013 but it just doesn\u2019t suck you in like on a phone. Facebook is a bit different. But\u2026 for Instagram and Meta you don\u2019t even have to go on those websites \u2013 you can just log in to Meta-business suite. But choosing audio for reels for Instagram via the meta business suite isn\u2019t possible annoyingly.<\/p>\n<p>TikTok again is good, but you can only schedule up to 10 days in advance. Which is a little annoying. But TikTok does let you choose audio and has some good basic video editing tools.<\/p>\n<p>This, as far as I\u2019m concerned is a no-brainer. Do as much on your computer as you can. Stay away from anything you don\u2019t have to do on the apps.<\/p>\n<h4>3.) Carefully consider your feelings of validation when you get a like or new follower.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3330\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"social media like\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-1535x2048.jpg 1535w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-1080x1441.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-like-scaled.jpg 1919w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is an eye-opening one. Still do this day, I get a high when I see I have a new follower or like on Instagram. I know that it shouldn\u2019t make me feel elated like it does yet it does. I shouldn\u2019t rate myself on someone\u2019s opinion of my content, combined with Instagram\u2019s algorithm and the reach my post gets. I do though.<\/p>\n<p>Meditation is such a good tool for this because you can become aware of these feelings and they hold less meaning. I think it\u2019s to do with our ego that we get these feelings of validation from social media. At the end of the day though, the more important thing is to enjoy what you are doing and look at your analytics, reach, and insights on a monthly or weekly basis.<\/p>\n<p>I guess this tip boils down to being mindful. How you achieve that I\u2019m not sure. I try to meditate every day and this seems to help me out here. Although I\u2019m far from perfect at this.<\/p>\n<h4>4.) Realise your time is better spent on other things.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3331\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"social media time check\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-time-check-1080x720.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s so tempting to refresh your social media feeds. Especially when you have just posted a new piece of content and one you are proud of. But\u2026 Are you really achieving anything from it? One of a few things can happen: 1.) you are upset you haven\u2019t received a like or gained a follower 2.) you get a dopamine rush from a like or follower 3.) you end up scrolling on social media.<\/p>\n<p>None of these things are productive. So just don\u2019t bother checking. Instead, you could be strategising, creating new content, analysing previous posts, or being more present in whatever activity or conversation you are supposed to be engaged with.<\/p>\n<p>I believe this is just a mindset change that is required. A lot of the time this is solved once the novelty of social media wears off \u2013 at least from a content creation perspective.<\/p>\n<h4>5.) Delete social media apps if you don\u2019t need them.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3332\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"social media delete fb\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-1080x1620.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-delete-fb-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is just common sense. If you don\u2019t need the app get rid. Facebook and TikTok you really don\u2019t need. Instagram maybe \u2013 just because the app has some functionality that can\u2019t be gained anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t rely on willpower not to go on the apps. Why would you when you can just delete them? Make it hard for yourself to fulfill the urge to check your social media account. Then after a while you should get used to it.<\/p>\n<h4>6.) Replace the bad habits with good habits.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3333\" src=\"http:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"social media good habit\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-1080x1440.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/powerofplanning.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/social-media-good-habit-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The only study I could find on breaking social media addiction was the one I have linked further up. The crux of the message was use good habits to break bad habits. Replace social media by building up a stream of subconscious \u201chealthy habits\u201d. From my own experience of trying to break bad habits I really believe in this.<\/p>\n<p>The results of this study back this up. And it makes sense. Oftentimes when you break a bad habit \u2013 it\u2019s simply because you\u2019ve been too busy to even do the bad habit in the first place. Subconsciously doing small healthy actions compounds and you want to carry on. I highly recommend you to read the study for yourself. Science doesn\u2019t lie.<\/p>\n<h3>Summary<\/h3>\n<p>Whilst this article is coming from my struggles to stay off social media since trying to create content and promote a new brand, I really believe some of these strategies mentioned can be applied to the average social media consumer. Even just understanding some of the points mentioned (such as habit formation, and how social media companies work), can help to shift your mindset and reduce your usage.<\/p>\n<p>If you have more information or want to share what has worked for you to cut down your social media usage let us know. I\u2019d be very interested to see if they work for me as well!<\/p>\n<p>Leaving it there,<\/p>\n<p>Cheers,<\/p>\n<p>Alex<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Social Media Trap Having started the power of planning about 6 months ago, I recently found myself wanting to reach a wider audience. One of the first ways I could think of to achieve this (other than general Google SEO work for the website) was social media. 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